It's all about Karma baby!!

That's right. It's all about Karma. And it's true what they say. Karma is a bitch!! I can't help but smile at that. Well, as you can imagine, the drama in my house just keeps going on and on. "Mike" and "Brad" aren't doing the greatest.... well, maybe they are now...but they definitely weren't a few days ago.
How do I say start this....? Ok, so when "Mike" and I were together, and we would get into a fight, I would go in the other room, crying. He never came in after me, he would just go back to watching television or go to bed and basically ignore me. He told me he just couldn't deal with me crying.... Weeeeellllll, here is where karma kicks in. Apparently the past few nights, "Mike" and "Brad" have been arguing and "Mike" will go into the other room, all upset and "Brad" will just ignore him. He ("Mike") says it's really upsetting and frustrating and it feels like "Brad" just doesn't care.... hmmmm... interesting, isn't it?
It's just very ironic that "Mike" has become me in his new relationship and "Brad" has become "Mike".
Like they say, Karma is a bitch!!

Just a thought

I heard a few things today that I thought I would share with you.
The first thing was..... Every beginning is scary, every goodbye is painful, but it's the middle part that matters the most.
And the second thing was..... the most rewarding thing you can do for yourself is also the hardest thing you can do for yourself.

I guess mine is the moving on part.

Are you kidding me??

So, in this crazy story called my life, things just keep happening that I just have to stop myself and remind myself that this is really happening.
The other day, I received multiple multiple text messages from "Mike." Asking me to talk to "Brad" for him. Apparently, the two of them do not communicate very well with each other. (Yep, that's a healthy relationship) So, the text messages went on about how "Mike" can't deal with "Brad" not talking to him. How it's killing him to feel this way, blah blah blah. Hello?? Now you know how it feels.... because you did that to me for ten years you idiot!!
Well, then to top it off, "Mike" calls me at work. At work!! I stop and tell him the truth. 1) I am your ex girlfriend before I am your friend. You can't ask me to talk to YOUR boyfriend for you. 2) I really think you're suffocating him. Hell, I'm not even in this relationship, and I'M feeling suffocated. 3) You need to decide if you want to stay with him if his personality is that he just doesn't talk about his feelings. But either way you decide, you need to BACK OFF!!! Stop texting him every 2 minutes. Leave him alone!!
Yeah, so not only do I work 2 jobs, but I play therapist on the side for my ex boyfriend. I should so start charging him for that!
Well, so here are, thinking, ok-this doesn't sound good, right? Maybe they should take a step back and give it some time.... Well, that's what I thought too. But, not to disappoint you, "Mike" does something just the opposite. He buys a car for "Brad". Yep, you heard right. A car.
Well, I guess he bought the car because "Brad" has horrible credit, and couldn't get a car on his own. So "Mike" to the rescue. Are you kidding me??
So, just to make sure you're up to date. "Mike" is having some real problems with "Brad." The communication is lousy. "Mike" is not feeling confident that this relationship has a future. So, he buys his boyfriend a car.
See, my friends. Never a dull moment. Leave it to "Mike" and "Brad" to never disappoint you!

Some Little Funny Stories

Ok, so now that we've basically got caught up, let me tell you about some funny things that happened along the way..... When "Brad" moved in, it was definitely awkward at first, but he seemed very respectful and nice to have around because all he did was make fun of "Mike". Of course, I enjoyed playing along with him. Trust me, it was a very easy thing to do at this point!!
I found myself becoming quick at comebacks.... for instance. "Brad" finished up dinner one night and asked where the TV tray went. My reply was, "It goes where "Mike" has been for the past 10 years. In the closet." Too me, that was hysterical! I don't know if "Mike" thought so!!! But I still think about that and crack up to myself.
Well, last night was not a good night. Apparently, "Mike" has informed me, that he proposed to "Brad" What???? Are you freakin kiddin me?? Yeah, no joke! 2 months of dating, and I guess they're engaged. 10 years of dating me, and I barely got to talk about marriage. Son of a bitch. That was a hard thing to hear. I did have a little meltdown. I mean, I'll be honest, I still have my days where I miss "Mike". It's only been a few months since we've broken up and I was with the guy for 10 years.... I think I'm entitled.... right?
Well, here's a quick update too. No phone call from MTV on my reality show. I really don't know what the hell they're waiting for....
Maybe I can call up Jerry Springer.....

Let's get caught up

See that picture -->
Yeah, that's me. Deidre. That picture was taken back when things definitely made more sense. Back before I was convinced that I could totally have my own reality show right now.
So everyone that I have been talking to has told me that I have to start a blog about the crazy thing called my life.
See, I was dating this guy "Mike" for the past almost 10 years. About three months ago, "Mike" informed me that he was gay and wanted to end things. Hmmm.....ok. Talk about ruining your day, right?
Well, here's the funnier thing. We just bought a house two years prior together. So, now we're stuck with each other. We can't sell the house, because let's face it, the market sucks right now. Neither one of us can really afford it on our own. So, ok-let's live together and be roommates. Why not?
What the hell was I thinking??
About a week after "Mike" and I broke up, he informed me that he was talking to this guy "Brad" online. I got jealous and started freaking out, thinking it was too early for either of us to be dating (like I really had a say in it, right?) and "Mike" ended up spending the night at "Brad's" house that night, because he didn't want to come home from work and deal with me.
Hey, he should know better. You don't mess with a woman's heart and not expect her to be upset. Idiot.
Well, to make a longer story shorter, they started officially dating. Great. Now I get to know not only have I lost my boyfriend, but I was replaced by another man.
Ok....here's where it starts to get a little crazy.
"Mike" asked if "Brad" would be able to move in. Now, what would any sane person say? I'll tell you what they'd say. "Absolutely NOT!!" Buuuuut..... what did I say?? (Because I'm such a nice freakin person?) I say, "Sure. Why not."
So, a few weeks ago, "Brad" moves into my home. Get ready for the surprise..... he has custody of his four year old son every other weekend!! Yep, my gay ex boyfriend's new boyfriend has a son!!!
So, in a matter of a couple months, my home went from "Mike" and Deidre, a loving couple planning to enjoy a future together living there, to.....Deidre. Her gay ex boyfriend "Mike". His new gay boyfriend "Brad" and "Brad's" son. (Who's only there every other weekend)
Are you listening MTV?? It's a reality show waiting to happen.
Everyday, there seems to be some sort of drama enfolding. Keep tuned for more........